After a long, hot summer, most parents are eyeing the return of school with the enthusiasm of…well…a parent excited about school starting soon. Sure, you’ll be back to helping with last-minute science projects and decoding whatever new math sorcery teachers are using these days. But compared to juggling work, family, youth activities, and record-breaking heat? That’s practically a vacation. And let’s not even mention the political climate—the environmental one
has been hot and confusing enough.
Sister Pattie O’Pounder
I recently read an NPR article by Brittney Melton, Here’s back-to-school advice from elementary to high school students, and a few nuggets of wisdom stood out.
This year, many St Louis grade school students—especially those whose families were displaced by tornadoes—are starting in new schools. Second grader Lucy Gonzalez advises, “Learn kindness and how to help others” and she’s right. You never know what storms—literal or figurative—someone has been through. Offer a helping hand first. You might just find new friends returning the favor.
If your summer felt like pure chaos—between whiplash-inducing policy shifts and Midwest weather that can’t commit—seventh grader Sophia Robinson has your back: organize and label your supplies for each class. Preparation won’t stop life from throwing curveballs at every scenario you’re prepared to manage, but at least you’ll be ready to catch them (or duck with grace). Honestly, I wish Sophia would come over and label my drag station.
For those approaching life’s bigger transitions, eleventh grader Selvam Antony’s advice is pure gold: “try to make the most of the high school experience, every fleeting moment.” And that’s not just for students. Parents, teachers, friends—time is the one currency we can’t get more of; spend it wisely. Drive your kid to school on their first day. Take the “First Day of Senior Year” picture, even if they groan. Spend your most valuable resource—your time—on building memories and a community you love.
Now, for my soon-to-be college freshmen:
1. Pack light. Your parents will be thrilled to send you a care package with everything you
forgot.
2. Find your people. Go to the welcome fairs, join campus clubs, build your community.
3. Stretch beyond your circle. Meet people who will challenge your thinking and expand your world. You’ve already proven you’re smart and capable by getting here; now grow into your best self by getting a little uncomfortable and embracing change.
As we head into a new school year, Spooky Season, midterms, and bigger ponds, I hope you stay rooted in your past, but let your colorful leaves catch the winds of change. Be safe. Touch grass. And, most importantly, listen to each other. Because whether you’re a second grader, a senior, or a parent hiding in the school drop-off line with a latte, this journey is a lot better when we walk it together.
