RuPaul has undeniably become an American icon, resonating with people across the globe. For those unfamiliar with Vicki Valentino, I often equate their significance to Missouri with what RuPaul symbolizes to the world — a trailblazer, a cultural icon and a beacon of self-expression.
In the heart of Missouri, Valentino stands as an iconic figure, not only in the local drag scene but also across the nation. However, it’s within the borders of the Show-Me State that Valentino has left an indelible mark, nurturing entertainers and eventual national pageant titleholders for generations.
Valentino, who retires this year, began their journey into the world of drag as a young adult. Drawn to the vibrant nightlife and the art of performance, they quickly made a name for themselves with their charisma, talent and unmistakable stage presence.
As Valentino’s star rose within the local drag community, they recognized the need for a platform to showcase and celebrate the talent of performers across the state. Thus, they pioneered one of the longest-running drag pageants in the state’s history, the Missouri State pageantry system, providing a stage for aspiring entertainers to shine and a pathway to national recognition.
Over the years, Valentino’s pageants have become legendary events, known for their fierce competition, electrifying performances and unforgettable moments. Many of its winners have gone on to become national names in pageantry and the ball scene, gracing stages across the country and earning prestigious titles. Folks like Legendary Ming Lee, Teonia M.Steele, Kalil Valentino, Zodiac Iman, Kara Belle, Simora Bonet, Chris Steele, Xavier Valentino, and many more got their starts there. And Valentino’s success in creating events and creating stars has made them one of the most sought after judges for local and national pageants around the country.
But Valentino’s influence extends beyond their work with individuals or through their pageantry system; it permeates the very fabric of the communities they inhabit. Whether hosting weekly shows at local venues, organizing charity events or advocating for LGBTQ+ rights, Valentino is a beloved figure who brings people together and uplifts those around them.
Valentino is not just a drag queen; they are a pillar of the community — a mentor, a friend and a role model to many. Their dedication to their craft, their unwavering support for fellow performers, and their commitment to creating inclusive spaces have earned them the respect and admiration of all who know them.
To put it simply, at the sound of their voice, you know it’s Vicki or even Vincent. They’ve coined catchphrases such as “the scores are the scores, and these are they,” and the tone and personality in Vicki’s voice only serve to enhance their legendary status.
As a competitor, Vicki was a force to be reckoned with — poised, professional and articulate. Competitors knew that in Q&A or interview segments, they would be facing off against a master. In talent portions, they delivered flawless performances. Vicki consistently presented a solid package.
The truth is, Vicki paved the way for countless entertainers and hosts in the drag, ballroom and LGBTQ+ culture at large.
When we look at figures like Teonia Mazzaratie Steele, Ming Lee, Sara Shay, Lucy Couture and many more, we can be certain that Vicki Valentino’s influence and support played a significant role.
As they retire from the stage this year, it’s only fitting that we celebrate and honor icons like Vicki while they can bask in the appreciation and recognition they so rightfully deserve. Let’s give them their roses while they can hold them and savor their fragrance.
